Don't accept that others know you better than yourself. Work joyfully and peacefully, knowing that the right thoughts and right efforts will inevitably bring about right results.
Remember as you focus forward that the right results are always those that are pleasing to God. Be sure to always show others that God knows you better than anyone.
For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking, but of righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Spirit, because anyone who serves Christ in this way is pleasing to God and approved by men.