A disciple is one who thinks, feels and acts like Jesus Christ. It is being conformed to the image of Christ as Romans 8:28-29 states–that God's No.1 purpose for our lives is to make us like Jesus.
Help God help you be more like Christ. Do it everyday by submitting yourself to His guidance. Find time to pray and quietly meditate with Him to discover the Christlike path He has prepared for you.
And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers.