The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new.
Change is inevitable so embrace it, but do your best to guide it down a Christian path. Pray to God, about what you can do to build a better future for those around you. Most importantly, then go out and get it done.
The Spirit of the Lord will come powerfully upon you, and you will prophesy with them; and you will be changed into a different person.