Make peace with your past, so it won’t mess up the present.
Learn from the past, but don’t let it define you. Live in the present, it is the gift God has given you and will soon enough become your new past. Make it a past you will be proud of.
So choose life in order that you may live, you and your descendants, by loving the LORD your God, by obeying His voice, and by holding fast to Him; for this is your life.