In general, people are not drawn to perfection in other people. People are drawn to shared interests, shared problems and mostly to another’s life energy.
Humans connect with humans. Hiding your humanity and trying to project an image of perfection actually makes you less attractive to others. Only God is perfect. Strive to be more like Him by being humble, charitable and loving to all you meet. You will attract attention for the right reasons.
Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own. Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.
Philipians 3: 12-14