It is easier to bear hard times if you say to yourself, “I may not deserve this punishment, but I do deserve others that I have not received.”
Challenge:
Realize that our Lord treats us so much better than we deserve. Thank Him for His grace, and then go treat others as you are treated.
Reference:
You have also forgotten the exhortation addressed to you as sons: “My son, do not disdain the discipline of the Lord or lose heart when reproved by him;
Hebrews 12:5 (NABRE)