Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice; it is not a thing be be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.
As you strive to control your destiny, recognize that God has called us to do what is right at all times and costs. That is the destiny God has called us to live. What gift did God give you and how will you use it today to further His kingdom?
Indeed, I wish everyone to be as I am, but each has a particular gift from God, one of one kind and one of another.
1 Corinthians 7:7 (NABRE)